Jaymes Foster Says Clay Is “An Incredible Caregiver”

Clay Aiken’s best friend, 50-year-old music producer Jaymes Foster, is the mother of their 7-week-old son Parker. Jaymes chatted with People during the magazine’s photo shoot at Aiken’s home in North Carolina, where she is currently staying. Jaymes opened up about her pregnancy, being an older mom, and who’s better at changing diapers.

On what makes Clay a great dad: “He’s an incredible caregiver. As far as changing the diapers and seeing what’s wrong with [Parker] and getting him to go sleep, Clay’s a natural and he’s really, really good with that. On a larger scale, he’s the perfect person. He’s been a school teacher, we have the same morals, family is very important to him and Parker means everything to us.”

On how she feels about having a baby at 50: “I really think I was not ready to have children – well, I know I was not ready to have children, be a mother – in my 20s or 30s. I had the freedom then to travel the world and have a wonderful career. I believe at this point in my life it’s the right time, and I think because it’s the right time, I’ll hopefully do a good job. If I don’t, Clay will be all over me!”

On her pregnancy: “I thought I’d be one of the lucky ones that didn’t get the nausea, that I’d sail right through the pregnancy. But unfortunately I had it the whole time! I dealt with it on my own until I found out that there is a great new medication that helps eliminate the nausea, which I took the entire pregnancy. But other than that, it was really a breeze.”

On supporting Clay’s decision to come out: “I totally support him. It’s his choice. It’s a choice that he made. I love him and I’ll support him in any choice that he makes, whether as an entertainer, or a father, human being, of course I support him.”

On any baby-related chores that either of them shy away from: “It’s funny because we were both very relaxed from the minute he was born. But the one thing I’m a little nervous about is clipping his hand nails because I think I might cut him, so Clay definitely has a handle on that and takes care of that. [Parker] doesn’t like baths so much, so I tend to do the bathing because he kind of cries through that so I’ve taken that on as a job. Clay would be happy to do that, but I just figure, okay, if he does the nails, I’ll do the bath.”

On if her relationship with Clay has changed since Parker’s birth: “We love each other dearly and deeply as friends, but I think as parents now, there’s an even greater bond, certainly for me. Our job is to remain best friends for the rest of our lives and that’s the most important thing for Parker.”

Source: People

Photo: Michael Lavine for People

Filed under: Clay Aiken,Jaymes Foster

  • I watched GMA this morning and while I don’t really feel one way or another about Clay, Parker was a little cutie!!

  • Eleonora

    I don’t think it’s the right time at all..

  • mj

    is it just me or is everyone in hollywood claiming their 40’s & 50’s the right time to have children?

  • I guess they’re going by the “50 is the new 40!” because before it was everyone wanted kids at forty.

  • Rachel

    She looks great for 50, I am glad Clay finally came out, and Parker is adorable! However, anyway you cut it…this is a weird situation!

  • Pencils

    The 40s are the right time for me–I’m 41 and now three days overdue with my first child, a little girl. I’m glad I waited. I have the love of my life, a settled career, good friends, and a close-knit family. My baby is the crowing glory.

    However, I don’t know if I’d want to do this at 50. I guess it depends on how the woman feels.

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