Tori Spelling & Dean McDermott’s Family Shower

Tori Spelling shared with her Twitter followers over the weekend that she, her husband Dean McDermott and their four children took a shower together.

The 39-year-old actress tweeted, “@Deanracer & I just had our 1st family shower w/all 4 babes. Went really well & saved on individual bath time! & only 1 babe pooped N shower.”

Some of Tori’s fans had something to say – thinking the family shower was “weird.”

Dean responded by tweeting, “family is the main thing in life that matters” adding they should enjoy “these family moments B4 kids get 2 old.”

The couple have four children – Liam, 6, Stella, 4, Hattie, 17-months and seven-month-old Finn.

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  1. Kota Girl

    Never have i in my whole entire life heard of a family taking a shower together! Ew wtf?!? I’ve never even seen my father naked before and never want to!!! And why would she feel the need to tweet that? Disturbing.

  2. TiffanyMW

    Okay, this is just creepy! A 6 and almost 5 year old does not need to be showering with their *naked* parents! I mean come on, it’s so not appropriate for their daughter, who is almost 5, to see her father naked. I would be horrified and scarred for life.

  3. Marie

    That was way too much information. But im confused, weren’t they separating? Or did i dream that?

  4. xoJerseyGirlxo

    This is disturbing. But am i the only one wondering how the hell they managed to fit 6 people, including 2 adults, in a shower at the same time??? How is that even comfortable? I feel like i’d get more dirty by rubbing against 5 other bodies (and being pooped on) than actually getting clean.

  5. Jessica

    Honestly… if Stella showered with just Tori in my opinion thats fine. I shower with my 4 year old on occasion. Or if Liam showered with Dean okay fine. BUT, I draw the line at showering with the opposite gendered parent after like… age 2.
    I just find it innapropriate.

  6. Anonymous

    After the age of 1 I think its weird to shower with your child maybe 2 if you want to push it. I personally only would do it out of necessity. I appreciate the time to myself, and don’t think the more the merrier in this situation!

  7. Chelsea

    That’s weird for a kid to shower w/ their parents at that age. I used to walk into the shower when I was 2 b/c I liked taking showers lol. But my dad became so paranoid he wore his bathing trunks, even when I was only 2, and I’m glad he did b/c I have that memory and I don’t want the memory of seeing him naked. Don’t know why she felt the need to share.

  8. Gretchen

    I used to take showers with my parents. I was about 5 or 6 when I stopped, that’s when I started asking too many questions! I’m not scarred in the least!

  9. amanda

    im just saying..he might have an asian fetish…with all her facial work done, shes more vietnamese looking than american. Is that bad? no.

  10. HW

    Tori has no sense. She needs to take parenting classes, along with her husband.

  11. Ano

    I don’t hope it was Dean who pooped!

  12. KitKat

    Come on..no one knows what that really looked like…maybe all 4 kids were in the tub and they just gave them a bath…maybe Tori and Dean wore bathing suits…maybe they were all in a forrest :)) I know she is putting it out there for us to comment, but honestly if it works for them, who are we to judge…

  13. anne

    It’ one thing to share this with the world. But honsestly I don’t see what’s wrong with that!

    I don’t get it: When Perez Hilton said the other day sth about Wiz Kalifa smoking weed near the baby most of the commens did’t see sth wrong with it. But when a family showers together naked (omg) – which is a natural thing – than that’s that big a deal? And really: not seeing the other gender parent naked after the age of 2 is just ridiculous!! I’m talking about a normal amount of being naked in the bathroom or in the fitting room of a public swimming pool or sth like that.

  14. Lily-of-the-Valley

    Please, you Americans are so out of touch with what’s natural and what’s not. I’m from a country where it’s not unusual for families to go to sauna together – and get this: ALL ARE NAKED. There is absolutely nothing sexual or weird about that and it definitely leaves no scars. Of course this stops at some point, naturally around puberty. Stop being so afraid of nudity! Bathing suit to a shower so your 2-year-old doesn’t see your bits? That tells me nudity for you is purely sexual and that, if anything, is weird and wrong.
    Ask anyone in Finland.
    Hats off to Tori and Dean. They seem like a great family (though even I’m sometimes puzzled by her tweets…).

    • christine

      Oh, I just posted a similar comment about swimming pool locker rooms before I noticed that you already had! 🙂 Pools in the US are similar to those in Sweden, in this regard, and despite all the crazy comments above, I really do think that most Americans have a relatively healthy attitude towards kids and nudity.

      Totally agree with your statement about how it’s healthy for our sons to know what real women look like, too!

  15. Iman

    Americans are so body shy, its crazy how many comments think this is weird or creepy. I think its weird and creepy how few real bodies people nowadays see instead they only see model bodies instead of normal ones. Its healthy to know what a naked body should look like.

  16. Anna

    I think you’re wrong, I do actually think it has to do with “morals” commonly associated with Americans. I don’t know where other posters are from, but Lily is from Finland, I’m from Sweden and you know what? In this part of the world normal people can be naked sometimes without having sexual intentions behind it. A naked body is a naked body, it isn’t sex! Perhaps it’s only Scandinavians who can be both naked and still have common sense, though?

    What exactly is it that you think will happen if a small child sees his och her parent naked?

    • anne

      U can add germans too! So I guess we can sum it up to Europe.
      @Anonymous: I’d rather say your last-century-attitude is what’s inappropriate here. Do you also think the peoples in South-America or Africa are not normal? Some of them wear no or really few clothing. How dare they….

      • Anonymous

        Oh yes lets all evolve like the Germans! Just a few decades ago you;d have killed this whole family for having Jewish blood. Don’t tell us what’s wrong with our views.

        • christine

          Wow, way to reduce all of German culture to an event that happened 70 years ago, which essentially all Germans today condemn.

          You make me embarrassed to be an American. I guess the only consolation is that you’re likely someone with low education, living in a small town middle American town and very unlikely to travel to other parts of the world representing our country. If it makes you feel powerful to spew out hateful comments on a website like this, go for it.

      • christine

        Just so I don’t accidentally anger anyone, I want to say that my comment below (embarrassed to be an american, etc) was in response to an offensive comment that thankfully was removed, and not in reply to Anne!

        🙂

    • anonymous

      I don’t think anyone said that they have sexual intentions. It is just tacky. If a stranger exposed their naked body to your child, would you be upset. I would hope so.

    • anonymous

      I missed the part where anyone said it was sex? In our part of the world normal people can have cooth. Just because it isn’t sex, doesn’t mean it isn’t wrong.

    • Anonymous

      Yes, it’s only Europe that can be both nude and smart. Sweden has a very high level of rape. You sound like a pedophile.

  17. Heather

    Okay, that is just so gross and why in the world would anyone ever mention that about their family? It’s not that she cannot afford the water bill okay? LOL! Seriously, that is just not good and it’s like saying our 13 year old daughter sleeps in bed with her Dad or our 13 year old son sleeps in bed with his Mom. Just her saying that knows that it is going to cause so much talk about it. Gross! Oh one more thing, how could two fugly people like this make such cute children is beyond me!

  18. Anonymous

    It’s normal to know what naked bodies look like when you’re at an appropriate age. All you Europeans, do us all a favor and stay the hell where you are. That’s why the molestation rate and rape is at all all time high over there.

  19. Zcvbnmasfghjklqwertyuiop

    Who cares what people from Finland and Sweden say or think. Like your opinion means anything. Lol. You people are from the loser part of the world.

  20. anonymous

    Agreed. It is scary how many grown people are comfortable looking at their parents genitals. Not me. Some things just don’t need to be seen.

  21. Anonymous

    Sweden – LOL. This country is considered the “rape capital” of the world. Read the article below:

    http://articles.timesofindia.indiatimes.com/2012-12-21/india/35952603_1_conviction-rate-sweden-countries

    Now, Anna go tell your daughter to walk naked to the bar up the block and talk to the nice old men there. After all, it’s “OKAY”.

    • NYCMommy

      Pretty sure you did not fully read the article otherwise you would know if is based on each countries definition of rape and basically says that something considered rape in Sweden is not considered rape in India. Probably a good idea read whole article you link before you disrespect someone else’s country.

  22. Anonymous

    Tori only twitted that they shower together for attention, like most everything eles she dose.

  23. Emily

    I don’t think it’s a big deal. At least they aren’t teaching their children that their bodies are something to be ashamed of.

  24. Denym

    where’s the news for Veronica De La Cruz’s birth announcement? I swear you guys post about the same families over and over again…

  25. Anonymous

    NYC IDIOT MOMMY – she disrespected Americans so I disrespected her country. Why don’t YOU read ALL the posts before you open up your idiot mouth???

    • NYCMommy

      Anonymous- why call someone an idiot??? I did not call anyone an idiot. Your comment was so rude and FYI, I dont open my mouth when I type.. who does???? I did read all the posts and yes some people did call us Americans uptight and overly body conscious but NO ONE called America the RAPE capital of the world to me it is offensive to not only do that to Sweden espeically since that was not point of linked article at all.

  26. anonymous

    This moronic woman will say anything to get attention! Tori and Dean lacks class, dignity, intelligence and discretion!

  27. Veep

    Never have seen my dad naked. Thank goodness for that! Logistically, how does everyone get in the shower at once? How to clean yourself when you are holding a baby and trying to keep them from getting a face full of water. Seems dangerous too. Baby could be dropped, children playing around and someone slips. It just seems so cukoo. If you want to play together in the water, get to the pool, jacuzzi, water slide, etc. Showers are a utilitarian thing. Get the kids clean and get out of there.

  28. christine

    Phew — what a relief to read a more reasonable comment after reading down the thread and seeing so many readers horrified that a kid would see their parent in the shower. I’m an American myself, and to be honest I’m probably a little more conservative than the average American when it comes to showing off my naked body, but I definitely believe that there is nothing wrong with kids seeing their parents naked, regardless of sex. Haven’t you ever taken your kids to a swimming pool locker room? There are naked people all over, of all ages, shapes and sizes! If I take my four year old son in to the pool locker room to shower before his swim lesson, am I supposed to put a blindfold on him so that he doesn’t see the old women who are changing and showering next to him???

    Really, people — nudity will become a problem if you teach your kids that there is something dirty or wrong about it. If it’s a pedophile in the park exposing himself to young kids, that’s a whole different story, but if you think that sexual abuse is similar to a kid seeing a parent get dressed or shower then I will be worried about your children’s future need for therapy…

  29. SMH

    Well personally, I don’t feel after the age of 3 that any opposite gender child should have to see their parent naked.
    Maybe I see it differently only bc I was a child who was sexually molested by a parent. And most parents who get naked in front of their children have no ill intent but kids are only kids for so long. Why do we have to put them in positions to ask so many questions about a grown up’s body. I don’t know. It’s mostly innocent but I personally wouldn’t want my 5 yr old daughter to see her father’s naked body.

  30. mag

    seems as if here is only problem girl seeing dad, not boys seeing mom naked. lol. how about boys seeing dad naked?
    but i am from europe also and we go to sauna all summer long. should i have let my 3 year old son go alone there? his dad is away during summer time and i was only parent around. i hope that now he has healthy idea of how real women look.
    but i agree that it was too much information to share by tori

  31. mag

    i bet he knows sex and other subjects because of tv and magazines not because seeing his parents naked or bathing with them.

  32. Anon

    When my children were little, taking a bath or shower alone was often my only quiet private time in the day. Darn if I was going to give it up.

  33. V

    Telling someone to “grow some sense, class, morals, dignity, etc” is ignorant and only shows that you lack many of those qualities yourself. It isn’t classy or dignified to be rude to someone because they have a different viewpoint than you do. There is nothing immoral about the human body, it is your own perversions that see it as anything but natural. And it is very much an American hang up. Europeans, Asians, Africans… they’ve all got a much more healthy view on nudity than most of us Americans do. It is natural and teaching children that it isn’t is far more traumatizing than seeing your mom and dad in the shower.

  34. Anonymous

    Sounds like there are quite a lot of European child molesters who post here. It has nothing to do with body image. A grown man or woman should not be nude in front of children. It’s called boundaries.

    I swear any time something inappropriate happens, there is someone from Europe who has to come educate us on why we Americans are wrong to think it’s immoral. I’m personally glad to live in a place where people can see a problem with this. There is nothing “natural” about it.

  35. popsykl

    we wouldn’t do it…but its only a shower, not a biggy

  36. Jen

    Oh that’s just gross. Not the shower thing just the baby poop thing. So gross. Way too tmi.

  37. Dana

    It’s sad how twisted many americans are about the human body. Is okay for your kids to watch sexualized images in movies and tv but god forbid they see their parents naked! (Clutches pearls)

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