Eva Amurri Martino Reveals Son Fractured His Skull

Mothers and Daughters star Eva Amurri Martino revealed that her newborn son Major suffered a fractured skull and bleeding on his brain after a night nurse dropped him.

In a blog post shared on her website Happily Eva After, the mother of two — including 2-year-old daughter Marlowe — opened up about the traumatic experience that has left her with feelings related to postpartum depression.

“A couple of days after Thanksgiving, our Night Nurse fell asleep while holding Major and dropped him, and he cracked his head on the hardwood floor,” the actress, 31, wrote. “Kyle and I were sleeping at the time and were awoken by the sound of his head hitting the floor, and then hysterical piercing screams. He suffered a fractured skull and bleeding on his brain, and was transported by ambulance to Yale Medical Center where I spent two harrowing days with him to receive emergency care and further testing. To say these were the most traumatic and anxious two days of my life is an understatement.”

The mom-of-two fears she’s suffering from some form of Post Traumatic Stress Disorder linked to postpartum depression.

“It’s nearly impossible for me to trust anyone but myself to take care of Major now,” she shared. “We definitely don’t have night time help anymore, but it has only been in the past week or so that I have felt comfortable with somebody coming during the day to help me with him so that I can complete normal tasks and work responsibilities. Hearing Major cry hard immediately triggers my memories of the moments after the accident and instigates an immediate panic attack– my heart races and tears spring to my eyes. Sometimes I get dizzy spells. I feel nauseous and overwhelmed and even small discomforts he has make me anxious. My appetite has decreased to nothing, I have a hard time getting to sleep after night time feedings, and my milk supply goes up and down depending on the stresses of the day. Any time we are near an edge or a ledge, I fear that he will fall, somehow, and be hurt again.”

But don’t start the mommy shaming and the guilt trips.

“I know that this news might reach many, and of those many there will always be the people who say that this accident was my fault,” she said. “That if it had been me in there holding him instead of a Night Nurse, that this never would have happened. That I deserve this for allowing my child to be in the care of somebody other than me. Well, let me tell you– the guilt I bore in the days and weeks after this accident was more intense and more damaging than anything I would wish upon my worst enemy. I had all those same thoughts and more. I wept in the hospital, telling anyone who would listen that it should have been me. That I was to blame. The truth is, even this woman who came so highly recommended, with a perfectly clean track record, could make a very human mistake. It “could happen to anyone”, and as they told me repeatedly in the hospital, it DOES happen to anyone. More often than you’d like to hear. Obviously, the (extremely upset and remorseful) nurse is no longer working for our family, though we forgive her. And even though I finally made peace with the fact that this freak accident could not have been avoided by me, it has continued to effect me to my core and in all aspects of my daily life.”

Thankfully, Major is going to be ok.

“We were absolutely, divinely lucky that day,” she shared. “He had no other broken bones, and no spinal effects whatsoever. He has been healing well, hitting milestones, cooing, smiling, and generally showing us that he is and will be ok as he grows and develops.”

To read Eva’s blog, go to Happily Eva After

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    maybe it would be a better idea to take care for your kids yourself and not prefering to sleep while others take care for your kids..

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